
When talking to people about writing and what it takes to create a good story, I often say writers have to live with their stories for a while. The most critical component in writing a good story isn’t the number of words you put on the page. It’s the time you spend thinking about the story.
Each story I work on hums in my mind every waking moment, even if I’m not at the computer. I’m picking bananas at the grocery store, and it’s the static hiss in the ceiling speakers. I’m having a conversation with my wife in a restaurant, and it’s whispering to me from a table in the corner. I’m walking my dog, and the leash is off in my mind.
Whatever story I’m working on, whether it’s a short or a novel, it’s with me every moment of every day for weeks, months, even years.
Someone recently asked, if I’m writing a horror story, how I live with horror for that long. I get that question. It seems totally bonkers to live with horror always in your mind. Why would anyone do that to themself? They must be weird. There must be something very wrong with them. They must be sick.
I used to have insecurities about that. I worried what people thought. I worried there was something wrong with me, too.
The truth is, while I live with my horror stories for long periods of time, I don’t live with the horror. Not always.
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